As the new year begins, it’s a wonderful time to reflect on the intentions we want to set for ourselves and our families. Instead of focusing on resolutions that can sometimes feel rigid or overwhelming, consider setting intentions that are flexible, meaningful, and anchored in your values. For parents of neurodivergent children, one powerful intention could be to become an even stronger advocate for your child; a commitment to continue to champion their needs and creating a more inclusive world where they can thrive. Advocacy is not just about action; it’s about connection, understanding, and building a supportive environment for your child’s growth and success.
At Peninsula Plus, we are here to walk alongside you on this journey. We understand that advocacy can feel daunting at times, but you don’t have to navigate it alone. Whether you’re advocating for your child at school, in healthcare settings, or within the broader community, we’re here to offer guidance, resources, and encouragement. Together, we can make a meaningful impact and help create a world where your child feels valued, understood, and empowered. Let’s explore some practical ways you can advocate for your child this year and set the foundation for positive change.
Advocacy in Schools
Building strong communication with your child’s teachers and school staff is one of the most effective ways to ensure their needs are met. Regularly scheduled meetings provide opportunities to share updates about your child’s progress, challenges, and unique strengths. Start the year by introducing yourself to your child’s new teachers, sharing helpful insights about their preferred learning style, sensory sensitivities, or strategies that have worked in the past and also what doesn’t work. Consistent email updates can also keep communication lines open and address concerns early.
If your child has an Individual Learning Plan (ILP), use the start of the school year to thoroughly review it. Collaborate with educators to ensure the plan accurately reflects your child’s current needs and aspirations. Don’t be afraid to request specific accommodations, such as assistive technology, adjusted workloads, or sensory breaks. These adjustments can significantly impact your child’s ability to engage and succeed.
It’s empowering to understand your child’s educational rights. In Australia, the Disability Discrimination Act (DDA) and the Disability Standards for Education are crucial tools that ensure access to equitable and inclusive education. Local organisations like the Association for Children with a Disability (ACD) provide workshops, resources, and one-on-one support to guide you through navigating the education system. Partnering with educators to promote inclusion, whether through peer mentoring programs or sensory-friendly classroom designs, not only benefits your child but also fosters a culture of acceptance and understanding in the school community.
At Peninsula Plus, we understand that sometimes advocating at your child’s school isn’t as straightforward and can occasionally feel like a struggle. It’s not always easy to navigate conversations, systems, or processes to ensure your child’s needs are met. That’s why we’re here to help support you and advocate with you. Please don’t hesitate to reach out to us; we’d be happy to inform you about how an experienced clinician can advocate together with you. Call us on 5975 1500, and let’s work together to make a difference for your child.
Advocacy in Healthcare
Navigating the healthcare system can be overwhelming, but fostering strong relationships with empathetic healthcare providers is key. Seek out professionals who specialise in neurodivergent care and are open to working collaboratively with families. Recommendations from local parent networks or support groups can often point you toward providers who truly understand your child’s unique needs. You can also reach out to us for any recommendations, and we will do our best to support you.
Organisation is an essential part of effective healthcare advocacy. Create a system to manage records of appointments, diagnoses, assessments, and treatments. Whether you use a physical binder or a digital app, having all this information at your fingertips will make medical appointments and consultations more productive. Staying informed about new therapies, interventions, and support services available at Peninsula Plus and locally can also empower you to advocate for the best possible care for your child.
Ask for a holistic approach to healthcare that addresses your child’s physical, emotional, and mental well-being. Speak openly with providers about how treatments or therapies align with your child’s needs and family goals. Simple adjustments, such as scheduling longer appointment times or creating a sensory-friendly waiting room experience, can make healthcare visits less stressful and more effective.
Advocacy in the Community
Your voice can make a profound difference in creating a more inclusive community. Sharing your family’s story, if you feel comfortable, can help dispel misconceptions about neurodiversity and foster greater understanding. Organisations like Amaze and VALID in Melbourne actively work to improve awareness and inclusion, and partnering with them on events or campaigns can amplify your impact.
Connecting with other parents of neurodivergent children can be a source of strength and inspiration. Local groups like the Melbourne-based Parent Support Network for Neurodivergent Families offer safe spaces to share experiences, exchange advice, and work on advocacy initiatives together. Collaborating on projects, such as developing sensory-friendly public spaces, creating inclusive educational programs, or organising community events, can bring about tangible improvements while building lasting friendships. In addition, at Peninsula Plus, we run an 8 week EmPower Program for parents, provides support and psychoeducation for Neurodivergent Families. It’s a great way to be part of a supportive network.
Advocacy also extends to engaging with policymakers. Writing letters to your local representatives, attending town hall meetings, or participating in public consultations are all ways to ensure neurodivergent voices are heard in shaping policies. Encourage diverse representation in community programs, such as sports leagues, arts initiatives, or library events, to ensure neurodivergent children have access to enriching experiences.
Staying Empowered as an Advocate
Advocacy is a journey, and it’s important to acknowledge both its challenges and its rewards. Some days will be harder than others, but every small step you take helps build a better future for your child. Remember to celebrate victories, no matter how small, whether it’s a successful meeting with a teacher or a breakthrough in therapy. Practicing self-care is equally essential. Surround yourself with supportive individuals, seek professional guidance when needed, and give yourself permission to rest.
Together, we can create an environment where neurodivergent children are not just accommodated but truly celebrated for who they are. With each conversation, connection, and act of advocacy, we move closer to a more inclusive and compassionate world. We would be honoured to be part of your family’s journey. Please don’t hesitate to reach out and ask for EmPower and Thrive Programs on 5975 1500. We will be waiting for your call.
With Love & Gratitude
Kuljit Daliwal (Psychotherapist)